
Chris Lees, Senior Research Officer, Money and Mental Health
When you need someone - improving third party access in financial services
14 October 2025
- Many people with mental health problems can sometimes need support with finances from a friend or family member.
- But at the moment banks aren’t consistently providing simple, safe, and legally protected ways for people to get that kind of support.
- In fact, our latest research shows that one in five people with mental health problems has resorted to sharing their PIN code or bank details with another person to get help with managing their everyday finances, leaving people at risk of financial abuse or fraud.
- We want the government to work with banks so they all offer customers a standard package of tools that make it easier for people to share money management in a safe and protected way – we’ll dig into our recommendations in greater detail in our next blog.
The Beatles once sang “I get by with a little help from my friends”. When we’re struggling with our mental health and our finances, those lyrics can hold very true. Four in ten (42%) people who experience a mental health problem want help with money management from a friend or family member. In 2016 and 2019, we looked at people with mental health problems’ experiences of getting that type of support – known as ‘third party access’. Six years have passed since that last report (named after the Beatles song). In that time, we’ve had a pandemic, a cost of living crisis and increased digitalisation of services.
Today we’ve published a new report on this topic. If I needed someone (yes, another Beatles song), explores people with mental health problems’ experience of trying to get support from a friend or family member with their banking. This includes new insights from our Research Community – a group of 5,000 people with lived experience of mental health problems or for caring for someone. We’ve found that while there have been some improvements, many of the issues we highlighted previously still remain.
People can have poor experiences of using existing third party access mechanisms
Various mechanisms exist to give a friend or family member access to your banking services. This can be through a formal authorised mechanism, like a Power of Attorney (PoA), or an informal mechanism, such as direct agreements with banks, known as Third Party Mandates. However, our research shows that takeup of these mechanisms is low.
While 86% of Research Community members with lived experience had heard of a PoA, just 14% of those who had given someone else access to their account had used a PoA. Comparatively, two thirds (65%) had given access through an unauthorised route, such as giving someone their card. There are a few reasons for this low take-up. These include how hard it is to start the journey of getting support, particularly if you are struggling with your mental health and find things like processing information very hard. We also found that people with mental health problems can feel like these mechanisms give away too much power to a third party and do not meet their, often fluctuating, needs.
“I’ve never made a formal agreement, it feels like handing someone control. The sensitivity of being someone’s third party authority is a difficult line to walk and I’ve never trusted anyone enough with it.” Expert by experience
Our research also found that people with mental health problems and those that support them can face challenges with setting up and using these mechanisms. Our analysis of the Financial Lives Survey, a large nationally representative study, found that four in ten (39%) people who have conducted financial matters on behalf of someone else have had a negative experience while doing so. The most common experiences were poorly training staff, difficulties registering the mechanism and poor customer service. This was consistent with what members of our Research Community told us about their experiences and can cause significant frustration and worsen someone’s mental health.
“Whole process was stressful not only to myself but my [trusted person] who had 3 trips to the branch to sort out.” Expert by experience
People with mental health problems are using unauthorised workarounds instead
“[I allowed someone to use my card] informally so they could get cash out for me. They abused my trust. Stole my card and over £4000.” Expert by experience
The challenges with the authorised mechanisms can mean that people with mental health problems turn to other ways of receiving the support they need. Our research has found that over one in five (22%) people with mental health problems had shared their PIN or online account log-in with someone else. Other workarounds include giving someone a card or showing them bank statements. Research Community members told us they were using these workarounds because they were simple and could be done on a more adhoc basis.
“I don’t like leaving the house unless I’ve got a really important reason and I get overwhelmed when I go shopping, apart from that I also overspend, panic buy, and manic buy! Therefore allowing somebody else to go and get things for me became the simplest of all the options.” Expert by experience
However, these workarounds come with a range of risks. For example, being the victim of financial abuse or fraud. Often, Research Community members were aware of these risks, and sadly, we heard stories of people being taken advantage of by those they had trusted. However, despite this, people told us they felt taking the risk was the only way to get the support they needed.
Has anything changed since 2019?
In our previous reports on this topic, we also found that people with mental health problems were turning to risky workarounds to get the support they needed. However, there is one area where there has been some progress. We had previously highlighted the type of support that people with mental health problems actually wanted. This included more specific support rather than the broad approach of the existing mechanisms. For this report, we looked at what 18 banks and building societies publicly said they offered customers:
– Seven offer carer cards that allow someone to give another person a card to spend with;
– Three offer notifications to a trusted person, for example when they spend above a certain level, and;
– One allows customers to give a trusted person greater control over their account, such as turning on spending limits.
We are excited to see the development of these needs based tools, as they offer the service that people with mental health problems are calling for. However, they are still not consistently offered by banks.
What should change?
We think there is more that banks and other financial service providers should be doing to make it easier and safer for people with mental health problems to get the support they need from a friend or family member. In an upcoming blog we will explore what these steps are.
You can read the report here. We’re grateful to Nationwide Building Society for sponsoring this report. It represents the research and views solely of the authors and of the Money and Mental Health Policy Institute and does not represent the views or experiences of Nationwide Building Society.
